Monday, February 28, 2011

Cold and Raw



Yesterday at church, two of our talented choir members did a beautiful rendition of Cold and Raw on harp and violin. Again, my thanks to Stacey at Do What You Love for the use of her beautiful images.
I hope you enjoy it and that your day is blessed.

Sunday, February 27, 2011

Waxwing convention!


My sister passed along these wonderful photos shared by a gentleman on a Purple Martin forum of the sight he saw at his backyard pond recently! Aren't they just glorious?? A huge thanks to Mr. George Kuehne, who lives down in south Georgia, for allowing me to share them with you here. We are all very jealous George!

Saturday, February 26, 2011

Just a simple recommendation


As I was looking at my Sitemeter stats yesterday, I noted a link I'd not seen before under "Referral Sources" and clicked on it to check it out. Apparently Katie at kt's Nature ID companion was rather suspicious of my creating posts in which I share my experiences with items and services and then back link to them. As if I am some "secret agent" of these businesses in some way? And maybe there is some monetary gain for me in promoting their products?

Wish I were so savvy Katie, but no, it truly is just me talking to my "friends" here and sharing things that I've found to be a positive purchase/addition in my boring, little life. Nothing more. No nefarious intent here in the least. I actually AM a nurse in my day job, and would never covertly promote things in which I have a personal interest. That's just not in my make-up.

So, are there others who are offended by promotion/recommendation of products on blogs? Just curious...

Friday, February 25, 2011

Plans for Spring Break


We had such a great time at the Avia Savannah in December, that we've decided to go back for a few days during Spring Break. As I was thinking of what I'd like to do for the three days we'll be there, I came across the web site for the Savannah National Wildlife Refuge. It is technically across the Talmadge Bridge in South Carolina and apparently is a great place to see spring migrants coming through.

I found this wonderful description on the web and now can't wait to visit!

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The Savannah National Wildlife Refuge, one of the best bird-watching spots in Georgia, is the single largest federally protected tract of land on the Georgia coast, stretching 20 miles along the Savannah River and consisting of 26,349 acres of freshwater marshes, tidal rivers and creeks, and bottomland habitat. The refuge is one of the most important wildlife preserves on the East Coast, and during migratory periods is visited by 21 species of warblers and thousands of ducks of more than 13 species, including the rarely seen cinnamon teal, Eurasian widgeon, and fulvous whistling duck.

Easily accessed by the outdoor enthusiast is the 6,000-acre southern portion located near US 17 in South Carolina. Here you find a 4-mile wildlife drive, nature trails, fishing, information, and bathrooms. Approximately 40 miles of intersecting dikes are open to hikers during daylight hours. (Automobiles are allowed only on the wildlife drive.) Biking on the dikes is permitted, but can be difficult if not impossible where the soil is very soft and sandy.

In Georgia, Native Americans built their settlements near rivers, a reliable source of food and water and important for transportation and trade. The area of the wildlife refuge, with navigable waters and abundant game, was no exception, and archaeologists have found evidence of Paleo-Indian activity going back 7,000 years. Shell mounds provide evidence that the area was inhabited to various degrees between 5,000 and 1,000 years ago. Other clues reveal that Indians grew maize (or corn) 1,000 years ago in the Savannah National Wildlife Refuge.

The well-engineered dikes, built by slaves and Irishmen, remain in place and today are used by U.S. Fish and Wildlife Service managers to benefit wildlife. Approximately 6,000 acres of former fields are maintained in 20 water-controlled impoundments to provide food and safe havens for wading birds during the year as well as migratory waterfowl that arrive during the winter. Because of the abundant avifauna, the refuge is popular with bird watchers, who have recorded 260 species at the refuge. The refuge is an example of man's interference with nature to benefit wildlife. If left alone, the former rice fields would convert to natural freshwater marsh and support smaller numbers of waterfowl and wading birds.

Four major kinds of habitat make up the refuge: tidal freshwater marsh, freshwater pools and marsh; hardwood hammocks consisting of oaks and other species; and bottomland consisting of cypress and tupelo gum. Each has its natural complement of flora and fauna. Alligators are plentiful in the freshwater pools, including one whopper well over 12 feet long. More than 100 alligators have been counted in the diversion canal alone. In the spring, the bellowing of males will stop hikers in their tracks. The dike trails are great places to find signs of alligator crossings, with matted down marsh grass on either side and a connecting groove in the sand created by the crawling alligator's tail. It looks like he drew a line in front of your path daring you to cross it. During cooler months, the cold-blooded reptiles are seen on the banks of the canals bordered by dikes warming themselves in the sun. During summer months, they spend most of their time in the water, with just their eyes and noses protruding above the surface.

Also in the pools are abundant frogs and turtles, and snakes. Abundant but not commonly seen are the cottonmouth, brown water snake, banded water snake, mud snake, and rainbow snake. Frogs include the bullfrog, the bronze frog, and the green treefrog. Fish found here include bream, largemouth bass, crappie, gars, and bowfin. The refuge is an excellent place to look for butterflies and wildflowers.

If you love birds you will consider the wildlife refuge to be a natural treasure. Take a pair of binoculars and a bird book. The Savannah Coastal Refuges office has a free brochure that lists bird species found at the national wildlife refuges under its management. The brochure specifies the bird species that are found in the refuges, how common they are, what season they are usually seen, and whether or not they nest there.

Thursday, February 24, 2011

Honestly... the best PJ's!

(edited 2/26/11)** Let me please add a disclaimer that I am NOT employed by Wild Bleu, have NO financial interest in the company, and do not benefit in ANY way from my sharing my experience with their PJ's ** Read on if you are so inclined.


I've raved about these before, but I recently got a new pair and have to say that I've never slept so well. I've not started having major issues with hot flashes, but would wake in the night with my cotton PJ's on feeling hot, hot, hot and having to strip everything off just to get back to sleep. Until I found Wild Bleu! I have been wearing them for a year now and adore them. They have a new line out called Mums the Word and I got the t-shirt and capri pants below. Yes, they are pricey, but not waking up sweating at night? Priceless!



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Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Wonderful, glorious bread!

Yesterday I told Sam that we'd go to O'Charley's after we visited the wonderful Dr. S and gave her an update on how he's doing. As we sat there waiting for our food, I happened to glance down at the bakset containing Sam's favorite, yummy rolls... and I laughed at what I read. I suppose I've just never paid attention to the paper under the rolls, but had to agree with the sentiments there:

"Acorns were good until bread was found."
"Without bread, all is misery."
"If thou taste a crust of bread, thou tastes all the stars of heaven."
"Let them eat cake rolls!"
"All sorrows are less with bread."

And, my favorite.... "Good bread is the most fundamentally satisfying of all food, and good bread with fresh butter, the greatest of feasts!"

I ask you, is there anything better? Like me, Sam adores bread! And yes, we did bring some rolls home with us to enjoy later!

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

Singing his Song

He somehow always finds the perfect perch
to climb on high and find his voice.
He basks in the light as he lifts his song
into the wind to be carried on the breeze.
Thus, he makes those who hear him smile
and remember to be joyful for the gift of another day.


Monday, February 21, 2011

Cool mornings, spring like afternoons

The afternoons have been in the high 60's and low 70's for the past few days, but the mornings are still a bit chilly. I saw this sweet Chipping Sparrow in the Japanese Maple in front of the house on Sunday morning, all fluffed out in the cool morning temperatures. But, spring is definitely in the air.

Sunday, February 20, 2011

Beauty in one

Seriously... when they come by themselves, I can actually appreciate their beauty. The green and purple iridescence with the golden brown tipped feathers make these guys look like they are decked out for Mardi Gras! I can just see some beads around his neck to complete his costume, can't you?

Boy, but my muscles are aching today. Yesterday we trimmed all the Hollys, cut back the Chinese Witch Hazel, all the Zebra Grass, the Weigela and the Rose of Sharon. Whew. I also trimmed back my large and small Crepe Myrtle. All that's left to do is to shape up and trim the Cherry Laurel in the front of the house, and clip back the Liriope. Then, spring can just feel rather sprung! Off to take more Ibuprofen.

Saturday, February 19, 2011

Love at the pond

As I pulled into our neighborhood on the way home from work Friday, I was passing the retention ponds when I noted a pair of ducks. I saw from across the pond that the male had a black and white head, and knew I'd never seen one there with this coloration. We've had Mallards, and Canada Geese, but that's about it. I pulled into the garage and quickly got my camera to head back to the pond.

I was so tickled when I look into my view finder and saw this beautiful couple! A male and female Hooded Merganser! They were the only two on the pond, and it was obvious he was trying to impress his lady as he'd periodically show his beautiful white hood. What a treat at the end of my week! I've never seen one, and there this sweet couple was, right in my own neighborhood.


Friday, February 18, 2011

Cool New ID Guide


My friend Laura posted to her blog about a new bird ID guide that is out now. It's called the Crossley ID Guide: Eastern Birds. I was so intrigued by her description, that I checked it out on Amazon and ended up ordering one for only $21. It came yesterday, and what a cool book! I've only gotten to flip through it a bit, but the entire concept it so different, and I look forward to using it to better assist in my ID skills. Check it out for yourself!

Thursday, February 17, 2011

Bittersweet moments

Sam: "Look Mom, it's a letter for me!"
Mom: "Who is it from Sam?"
Sam: "Winthrop University."
Mom: "Oh. Well, lots of colleges get lists of students that are graduating and want to invite them to come see their campus so that they might want to go there."
Sam: "Can I throw it in the trash Mom?"
Mom: "Yes, you can Sam."

The next morning on the way to school...

Sam: "Mom, what about that letter from college?"
Mom: "Well, Sam, they just sent it in case you might be looking to go to college."
Sam: "But I don't want to go to college Mom!"
Mom: " I know Sam. You don't have to."
Sam: "If I went to college and left you, you'd miss me and cry."
Mom: "Indeed I would Sam, indeed I would."

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

And so spring creeps in...

Out at my mailbox bed, I let the spent blooms of the Sedum and Crepe Myrtle remain over the winter to give some interest to the bed. Just behind the mailbox, we have some beautiful double bloom daffodils planted, and I always forget about them until I happen to see them rear their little heads. When I got the mail yesterday, I peeked behind the Sedum and saw the lovely sight above! Time to trim away the dead and look forward to the new blooms of spring here in Georgia!

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

Standing in silence

So many mornings, I am getting ready to leave for the day, and then open the blinds and see a sight like this... so it was yesterday morning.

I simply have to stop what I am doing, calm my rushing and my needing to hurry out... simply so I can step out onto the deck, take a really deep breath, and bask in the glory of the privilege of a new day. Then, and only then, am I ready to meet what will come my way.


Monday, February 14, 2011

Who ate all the Bark Butter?

On Thursday, after having my birds tapping on the window and chirping away at me, I finally got around to filling the feeders. On my last trip to Wild Birds Unlimited, I found that they now have the Bark Butter in a "Bug Berry Blend" which has roasted mealworms, sunflower chips, chopped tree nuts and five different fruits - cherries, blueberries, raisins, apples and cranberries! I had not yet introduced it to my friends here on Chickadee, and since I'd let the feeders get rather empty, I put a little extra on top of the swing out by the feeder area. There were three Pine Warblers watching me fill the feeders and patiently waiting for me to be done, and I knew they'd enjoy this new blend tremendously.

So, imagine my surprise when I looked out the kitchen window to see this sight! Three ginormous crows eating themselves full of my new treat! I hope the little warblers got some before these guys found the bounty. From now on, it will be in a feeder a little less accessible to them!

Hope your honey gives you something as yummy as Bark Butter today for Valentine's Day! ♡


Sunday, February 13, 2011

On the kitchen table

What is it they say about paybacks?
Remember when I took great pains to surprise hubby for his birthday?
Well, yesterday morning the phone rang...
"Uh, yes... this is Your Hometown Florist and I have a delivery here
for Jayne. Will someone be at home to accept it this morning?"
I simply smiled and told the nice man that there would be someone
at home, and oh.... thanks for spoiling the surprise.
Well, I didn't really tell him that last part, but wanted to!
Hubby rarely sends me flowers and these are lovely and the
card is even lovelier as it is for his and Sam's favorite Valentine.

Saturday, February 12, 2011

Waiting, waiting, waiting for Thomas and friends

(The Rev. W. Awdry and Christopher Awdry)

From Wikipedia:

"The Railway Series is a set of story books about a railway system located on the fictional Island of Sodor. There are 41 books in the series, the first being published in 1945. Twenty-six were written by the Rev. W. (Wilbert) Awdry, up to 1972. A further 15 were written by his son, Christopher Awdry; 14 between 1983 and 1996 and a further book in 2007. Another book is due for release in 2011. Nearly all of The Railway Series stories were based upon real-life events. As a lifelong railway enthusiast, the Rev. Awdry was keen that his stories should be as realistic as possible. The engine characters were almost all based upon real classes of locomotive, and some of the railways themselves were directly based upon real lines in the British Isles. Characters and stories from the books formed the basis of the children's television series Thomas and Friends."

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I suppose Sam has loved Thomas the Tank Engine and Friends since he was 2 years old or so. He loved watching the videos and he would, of course, line up the little die cast trains and jabber to them. This was before our diagnosis. Over the years, we've collected ALL the videos, most ALL of the DVD's, the die cast trains, the wooden Brio trains, the Take Along Trains from Target, and yes, we even have some HO gauge trains with a track.

So, I was not at all surprised when he told me he wanted to spend some of his Christmas money to get the 15 books in the Railway Series written by the Rev. W. Awdry's son, Christopher. However, you can only get those on Amazon UK. Sigh. We initially ordered three of the books to make sure he like them, and once they came we found the remainder of them and placed our order on January 15th. The shipping was going to be almost as much as the books, but that's just the facts when you order from abroad. And, we waited. And waited. Days, then weeks went by and he started getting really anxious and impatient. He was asking me every single day about them and when they would come. Sometimes several times a day I found myself reiterating to him that they had to first find all the books, then group them together in a central location before shipping them... and THEN, they had to come way across the Atlantic Ocean. No go. He was getting more and more anxious and impatient every passing day. And me? I was ready to pull every hair out of my head having to explain over and over and over again why this process takes time. And the kicker is that they give you this really broad date range. Like shipment would be estimated to be between Feb 10-March 12 and delivery between Feb 18-March 20.

Finally, I couldn't take it any longer. It was consuming him, and his frustration about it was building and building, which can impact his attitude both here at home and at school. In desperation, I sent an email to Amazon UK and explained my situation. I asked them to just let me know where we were in the process. As usual, Amazon replied right away. I love Amazon. I love you Jeff Bezos. The nice person sending the reply explained that since I had checked, "Group my order into as few shipments as possible" instead of "Send my items as they become available" they were simply waiting for TWO MORE BOOKS to come in before sending it on. If I should like to, I could simply change the shipping option and they could immediately dispatch the 9 they already had ready to send, but of course, I'd incur additional shipping costs.

I thanked him profusely for explaining the delay, told him I didn't care at this point if I had to come over there and clean house for him to pay the extra shipping, my sanity was worth so much more than that to me! I promptly went online and changed the status of our order and knew they would ship out the next day. I did not tell Sam, but rather wanted to see his excitement as we logged on to check the status of the order and he could see that they had indeed shipped.

So, on Thursday the 10th, we came in here and he was standing over my shoulder saying, "Oh, I hope, oh, I hope, Mom." I pulled up our order and there it was... notification that 9 of the 11 books had indeed shipped and were on their way!! Oh, the excitement! He was simply giddy and as he skipped out of the room, turned to me and said, "See, I told you mom... you just have to be patient." That's my boy.

Friday, February 11, 2011

Our local "American Idol" sweetheart!



I personally think that Simon and company departing from AI has been the most positive thing ever for the show. During the Nashville auditions, we were thrilled and tickled to see a hometown girl, Lauren Alaina, who goes to Sam's school, blow the judges away! Go Lauren! Can't wait to see how she does! Whoo hoooo!

Thursday, February 10, 2011

Happy Birthday Daddy

Born February 10, 1933
in a small, small town in Northeast TN,
Jimmy Lee found his way in the world.
And the world became a better place.
Happy Birthday to my sweet Daddy.

Wednesday, February 09, 2011

21 Years Ago Today

February 9, 1990
We said our "I do's"
and then took a limo ride around the city.
My, how very young we looked!
Happy Anniversary Sweetie!


Tuesday, February 08, 2011

Keep Your Lamps



Our choir anthem from Sunday... Keep Your Lamps
We were supposed to have a guy playing conga drums, but he did not show. I think this a cappella version still turned out well! Enjoy!

Monday, February 07, 2011

Birdzilla????


SOMEBODY in this house has been in Photoshop
playing around and morphing my bird photos???
I found this creation in Lightroom and couldn't
help but think about "Birdzilla" as a caption.
Or, how about "The Bird Who Ate Florida?"
Or, "They Only Come Out At Sunset!"

Sunday, February 06, 2011

Framing the beauty

When Kelly sent me the print of the chickadee, she also enclosed a second larger version. She'd had prints done two different places and was not as happy with the color on the larger print as it was not as close to the original painting as the smaller one she framed for me, but left it to me to decide which one I liked best. But, I loved BOTH of them and knew I wanted the larger one hanging in my great room here on Chickadee.

So, a couple of weeks ago, I went by to see a wonderful local frame shop, described the color scheme of my room, and this is what we selected to showcase Kelly's work! I loved how the burlap type mat looked surrounding the sweet birdie. I picked it up this week and it now hangs proudly in my home. Again, there are simply so many blessings about being in the Blogger community. Thanks again Kelly!

Saturday, February 05, 2011

Trail Music



Several weeks back, I was looking for some new soothing piano music when I happened upon this very wonderful CD called "Pianoscapes for the Trails of North America" by Laura Sullivan. I was blown away by its wonderfully relaxing and beautiful arrangements of piano with other instruments which evoked the feeling of walking these trails. If you love to have some gorgeous background music going when you are relaxing or whatever, check out Ms Laura. Amazing talent and music that moves my soul.

Friday, February 04, 2011

Can you say ... Oh. My. Yum?

Honestly, for the most part, there are few foods that I truly "feel" when I put into my mouth. And I am very, very careful with those foods that evoke a feeling of pure bliss and comfort. I treat myself only now and again. But, yesterday, it was almost 2:30PM and I had not eaten since breakfast at 6AM. I was HUNgry. I had to get to school to pick Sam up, but had time to run into our neighborhood Panera Bread. I got a "You Pick 2" with a Frontega Chicken Sandwich and then, when I went to pick my side, there it was... Vermont White Cheddar Mac and Cheese. Oh. My. I only have it rarely, but it was so cold and I was so hungry and well... it was just time.

I drove to school and got there in time to eat my lunch in the parking lot while waiting for Sam to come out to the car. I swear... what is it about Mac and Cheese? That first bite in my mouth was just pure bliss. I sat there just experiencing utter gustatory happiness as that creamy cheese sat in my mouth and then the shells began to soften... well... I won't embarrass myself and go on about just HOW good this stuff is, but I do know that it's something I have to enjoy on a rare occasion. If you have a Panera near you, be warned... and you might want to take that first bite in private so that the ensuing moaning won't embarrass you!


Thursday, February 03, 2011

We graduate and then...

(Oh how I loved "Jonathan Garvey" on Little House)

You know, it's really amazing to me that there are so many support services in place for kids like Sam when they are in school. The schools here in this district do a really good job of making sure each child develops to their potential. I can not say enough good things about how much support Sam has received. But, come May, he graduates and then what? There is a complete and utter dearth of services once a student with special needs is out of high school. Even if they are quite capable of learning to do a job, the available programs are very limited, and usually geared towards lower functioning adults. I've given much thought to what we'll do next year and my options are pretty darn limited. There is a day school in a neighboring town, but you have to be 22 to attend there as most kids with disabilities stay in the school system until then. And so, I only really have one other option. To keep Sam in the county school system.

Thankfully, our county started a program two years ago at another county high school to address the needs of these students "after" school. It focuses on job skills training, social skills, and life skills. Sam still needs some time to mature further as he's obviously not developmentally 18 years of age, and the time he could get here might be valuable in getting us to the point where we CAN transition into a job situation by the time we're 22. Back in December, I took a trip to the school with Sam's parapro and another Special Ed teacher who dearly loves him, to meet the program director and see what the program is all about.

I am a pretty good judge of a person's personality, just by meeting them and seeing what sort of aura I get from them. I have to say that meeting Mr. Bill was like meeting a Merlin Olson type of person. Tall. Big. Imposing... but... Loving. Warm. Secure. Good vibes. He gave us a tour of his program and explained what they do to try and get the kids into a job routine. Many... no, most... of his students probably won't go on to regular employment in their lives and he realizes that, but he still instills in them the pride in a job well done, and the routine of going each day and praises them for their successes. They have a room that is set up like an apartment and they do cooking and other life skills as well. Truly, this program can be individualized to the needs of each student. Sam is a good bit higher functioning than most of the kids there, but I think he'd like Mr. Bill a lot and do well there. It's not as if I have many choices at this point.

He does not yet know that this is probably the plan for the next few years, and I won't tell him until school is out, as I don't want him stressing the remainder of this year. It's yet another fork in our autism road. We'll struggle a bit at the start of the path, but we'll find our way. We always do. Me included.

Wednesday, February 02, 2011

It's all in our perspective


I've recently started reading a new blog, and find that my new blog friend Yolanda shares some wonderful tidbits of wisdom. This particular piece she shared the other day was profound and really made me think about how much we whine about trivial things. Read it and be thankful today.

Tuesday, February 01, 2011

Red pops in winter

Hubby was playing around in Photoshop and took two of my photos of a male Cardinal in the snow and transformed them so that his vivid red "pops" out of the frame! I thought they looked pretty neat!